50 Least Desirable Qualities

Individual preferences, relationship requirements, and hierarchies of values vary, but many people feel they “can’t stand” the following traits, qualities, characteristics, or behavioral tendencies in their potential mates (for their relationship together to succeed, be fulfilling, and satisfy their mutual needs):

28 Least Liked Traits
1. Vanity: someone overly interested in his or her physical appearance.
2. Dependent: someone who bases his or her happiness on their partner.
3. Depressed: someone constantly unhappy about his or her life.
4. Lying: someone who lies to anyone – especially their partner.
5. Cheating: someone who takes advantage of people.
6. Cynical: someone who generally sees the world from a cynical perspective.
7. Angry: someone who can’t manage anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
8. Self-Centered: someone whose main topic of conversation is himself or herself.
9. Rude: someone who is belittling, impatient, or hateful to people in any situation.
10. Unhappy at Work: someone who hates his or her job and complains about it all the time.
11. Materialistic: someone who sees material items as a measure of success.
12. Denying: someone unable to accept blame or see fault in his or her own actions.
13. Workaholic: someone who treats everything in life as secondary to his or her job.
14. Lazy: someone who likes to spend excessive time sleeping, resting, or being a “couch potato.”
15. Worrying: someone who easily loses perspective and constantly worries.
16. Intolerant: someone who is self-righteous and feels that his or her particular faith is the only one that matters.
17. Victim Mentality: someone who continually sees himself or herself as a victim.
18. Grudges: someone with a chip on his or her shoulder.
19. Mean Spirited: someone with a devious nature and is mean to others.
20. Childish: someone who is not emotionally mature.
21. Fiscally Irresponsible: someone incapable of managing his or her money.
22. Petty: someone who focuses on imperfection.
23. Hypochondriac: someone who has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the symptoms of his or her supposed illness.
24. Boorish: someone inclined to rowdy, vulgar, or disrespectful behavior when “having fun.”
25. Excessively Overweight: someone (excessively) overweight.
26. Gambling: someone who gambles.
27. Drugs: someone who uses illegal recreational drugs.
28. Intruding Family or Friends: someone whose relatives and friends are constantly calling or visiting.

22 Least Liked Values
1. Non-Punctuality: someone who is always late.
2. Flirtation: someone who constantly flirts with the opposite sex.
3. Racism: someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which he or she belongs is superior to the rest of humanity.
4. Television Junkie: someone who constantly watches television.
5. Poor Hygiene: someone who is not clean.
6. Hypocrisy: someone who holds a double standard for his or her actions and those of other people.
7. Gossip: someone who loves to talk about other people.
8. Judgmental: someone who finds fault with everyone and everything.
9. Pornography: someone who views or owns pornography in any form.
10. Addictions: someone currently suffering from an addiction.
11. Sloppiness: someone who is unkempt.
12. Undependability: someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.
13. Cheap: someone so “tight-fisted” (with money) as to be impractical.
14. Foul-Mouthed: someone who swears or uses inappropriate language or humor.
15. Arrogance: someone obnoxiously cocky.
16. Extreme Shyness: someone so shy that he or she cannot open up and share.
17. Pessimism: someone who always sees the glass as half empty.
18. Political Correctness: someone who censors his or her thoughts and opinions with a politically correct agenda.
19. Recklessness: someone who has a careless and irresponsible manner with others.
20. Sexually Obsessed: someone who is sexually obsessive.
21. Uninterested in Sex: someone who does not enjoy having sex on a regular basis.
22. Infidelity: someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship.

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